How to Navigate Summer Social Eating Without Derailing Your Progress
Summer can sure feel like one long social eating season. BBQs, family gatherings, 4th of July parties, vacations — there’s a lot of fun opportunities to socialize, connect with others, and enjoy great weather. It doesn’t have to be a health derailing experience…but that is certainly the reality for many people.
But here’s the good news: you can enjoy yourself without spending the next day feeling poorly in your body (sluggish, bloated, and regretful). The key is knowing a few simple principles and how to put them into practice in real-life social situations.
Start With Blood Sugar Basics
Your mood, energy level, and your inflammation all depend on what is going on with your blood sugar! Blood sugar spikes are one of the fastest ways to trigger inflammation in your body and have your energy and mood crash when the spike comes down. When you eat a big hit of refined carbohydrates or sugar — think chips, white bread rolls, sweetened cocktails, or dessert on an empty stomach — your blood sugar shoots up quickly. Your body responds with a surge of insulin, followed by a crash. That roller coaster drives cravings, fatigue, and inflammation, and it also sets you up to overeat later which is a strain on digestion (and fat storage).
The goal isn’t to avoid carbs entirely: it’s to have a game plan that sets you up for feeling fueled, energized, and enjoying the people you’re socializing with.
Your Social Eating Game Plan
Eat before you go (or at least don’t arrive starving)
This one is simple and game-changing. Having a small, protein-rich snack before a gathering — a handful of nuts, some hard-boiled eggs, a little leftover chicken — takes the edge off hunger so you’re not standing in front of the chip bowl making desperate decisions.
Prioritize protein and fat first
When you get to the food, load your plate with protein and healthy fats before anything else. Grilled chicken, salmon, shrimp, guacamole, olives, cheese, deviled eggs — these foods slow digestion, blunt blood sugar spikes, and keep you satisfied. Once you’ve eaten those, your system will feel more balanced and you’ll naturally eat less of the high-carb, high-sugar foods because you won’t be as hungry for them.
Choose your carbs wisely
Not all carbs at a summer gathering are equal. Fresh fruit, corn on the cob, and potato salad made with actual potatoes are very different from chips, white buns, and pasta salad made with processed pasta and canola oil dressing. If you’re going to have carbs, go for the real, whole-food versions — and pair them with protein and fat to slow down their impact on your blood sugar.
Watch the drinks
Alcohol, sweetened cocktails, lemonade, and even some sparkling waters with “natural flavors” and hidden sweeteners can send your blood sugar on a roller coaster ride. Don’t drink alcohol or sweet drinks on an empty stomach (anchor with some protein and fat first). If you’re drinking alcohol, opt for dry wine or spirits with sparkling water and a squeeze of citrus. Alternate with plain water. And if you’re not drinking alcohol, sparkling water with lemon or lime is a great stand-in that feels festive without the blood sugar hit. I’m also a big fan of iced herbal teas!
Progress, not perfection
One gathering is not likely going to derail your health. Chronic stress and guilt about food is itself an inflammation driver. The goal is to make smart (kind to your body) choices most of the time — not to be “perfect” all of the time. Enjoy the meal, enjoy the people, take your time and savor whatever it is you are eating or drinking, and get back to your regular habits the next day. Your mindset has SO much to do with your enjoyment of any experience. If you go into a social gathering with the mindset that you can’t have fun unless you’re drinking alcohol or eating cake, you’re going to feel deprived if you don’t partake. But if you go into any situation with a mindset and attitude of enjoying the people, the weather, the delicious & healthy food, the good conversation…you’ll have a great time.
The Big Picture
Summer social eating doesn’t have to be a health obstacle. With a little intention and following the basics I’ve laid out, it can actually be one of the most nourishing seasons of the year — good food, good people, and plenty of time outside. That’s a great combination!
As a functional nutritionist, I don’t just help you to eat healthier: I help you create a healthier lifestyle.
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Until next time, I’m wishing you unstoppable health,
~Rebecca
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