Embrace Imperfection
I get bombarded with messages about the “best” foods and the “best” fitness trends. I bet that you do too. We are all so busy and marketing is designed to grab our attention. It’s all about the “#1 thing” and “best”. Would you pay as much attention to a headline that read “The secret to good health is there is no secret: just eat healthy foods and move your body”?
But the truth is, I am a a huge advocate for embracing imperfection and making healthy practices your new normal.
What is perfectly good?
Embracing imperfection is about accepting that true perfection doesn’t exist: we all have a different opinion on it. It’s more about what is right for you…what feels good AND matches objectively healthy data ranges. There is no one perfect weight for me or you or anyone else: there’s a range in which feels good and looks good to us. There’s no perfect amount of exercise either, but we can all feel when we haven’t moved our bodies enough or if we’ve overdone it.
I think you get the point. Stop chasing perfection. Stop beating yourself up if your diet or lifestyle didn’t meet an exact target. Instead, ask yourself what a healthy range is. Set minimum and maximum targets for yourself, listen to your body, and make adjustments as needed.
Here are some examples to consider: healthy ranges of sleep are between 7-9 hrs/night, move your body daily and choose options that feel good to you–some people go to a gym and some people exercise outside most of the time, some people work out at home–they’re all good options! We all need to eat protein and produce but there are tons of options–mix it up and listen to your body for what combos leave you feeling satisfied, alert, and digestively sound.
Stay in your lane
To compare is to despair. Sure, it can be helpful to look around and see what is both working or not working for someone else, but when we try to exactly replicate someone else’s life, we are going to be disappointed. You aren’t someone else. You are you! What works really well for you might be a lot higher of a standard than what works for someone else and vice versa. If you have food sensitivities or are healing your gut, your daily choices are going to be different from someone who isn’t and that is just how it goes. If you have had surgeries on your joints or injuries, you will almost certainly need an adapted fitness routine…many of us need to make adjustments or accommodations for our unique situation. And if we don’t, we will be the ones paying for it, not someone else.
Most people don’t want to talk about it or appear “high maintenance”. Self-advocacy can be judged by others as needy…but it doesn’t change the reality that there are things that we can choose for ourselves that will make a real positive difference. It’s not about perfection, it’s about being honest with what works for you and letting that be your business. You don’t need to judge yourself or other people. Stay in your lane (in your healthy range). You will be far better off.
I hope that this information helps you to hold space for yourself and the daily practices that support you to be in a healthy range. Embrace imperfection!
It is my passion to work with people like you whose health symptoms are getting in the way of you living life fully and with a sense of freedom in your body. I can help you to regain your health so you can feel great and free to enjoy life fully.
If you’re ready to discover where your best healthy range has been hiding, I’d love to connect with you!
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Until next time, I’m wishing you unstoppable health!
~Rebecca
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